Lesson Five | Twists
Sometimes Brahmacharya is translated as “abstinence.” However, when we break
down the word in Sanskrit, it more literally means “abiding in God/Divinity.” So let’s feel into
what that means to make a home inside of the Divine; to dwell in the remembrance that we
have a spark of the Divine within us. Abstinence from anything sex, certain foods, certain
lifestyle choices is a pretty extreme approach. It involves cutting things out of our life, and
saying an absolute “NO.” In contrast, the practice of abiding in Divinity asks us to be discerning,
and to contemplate “what choices best honor the Divinity within me?”
Instead of making hard and fast rules for myself like “No sugar ever” or “No spending this
month” etc, the subtle practice of Brahmacharya asks me to be in constant discernment about
my words, deeds, and thoughts to check that each of them honors the Divine in me. So I’ll ask
myself, would a little macaroon or a sweet treat really hit the spot right now? Would that make
me feel pampered? Or delight my tastebuds? Or am I really craving a nutritious snack with
protein? Or maybe I’m seeking out sweets because I’m tired or emotional, and a better choice
would be a nap or chatting with a trusted friend. The true practice of Brahmacharya is one of
vigilant discernment into what will honor our highest selves. When we see ourselves making
choices financial, sexual, nutritional, or otherwise that will deplete our energy, overextend our
resources, or result in us feeling icky afterward, then we need to set limits and redirect our
actions. On the flip side, life is to be enjoyed and savored, and the delights of tasty food,
mindful spending, and conscious intimacy are all ways of remembering that the Divine in us
takes joy in the miracle of embodiment. It feels good to have a body! That is the essence of
any Brahmacharya practice for each of us to make personal choices that are right for us, and
treat our body as a house for the Divine.
Journal
What will this practice mean for the choices you make this week? How will Brahmacharya
inform your diet, lifestyle, and routine? On one page, I invite you to make a list of any blaring
red flags issues, incidents, choices you might make this week that set off an internal alarm.
Red flags are those recurring issues that get us to compromise our highest self examples
would be “every Friday night I stay up til 3am and drink too much a feel hungover on Saturday”
or “every time I shop at this particular store, I spend too much and use my credit card” or “every
time this topic comes up in conversation, I end up saying things I wish I could take back.”
On the other side of the page, I encourage you to contemplate healthier choices you could
make this week to honor yourself as a divine being. Make a plan of action that includes
alternatives. So don’t just say “this week I won’t drink or spend or speak about any
controversial topics.” Go deeper than that, and find the middle path where you will be happiest.
Create a livable budget for this week; plan for a few meals that indulge your tastebuds without
blowing your healthneeds; carve out time for honest and open communication with people you
love and respect. This stuff involves creating new habits for ourselves. Making lists like these
ones in our journal will help us consciously approach the new week with an intention to live in a
way that honors our Divine self.
Meditate
This week we’ll be using a mudra meditation technique. Mudras are sacred hand gestures that
have symbolic power. Take a comfortable seat on a chair or cushion and find good posture
throughout your spine. Then place your hands in this mudra position: The right hand is held
upright with palm flat and facing outwards (this hand symbolizes boundarysetting and warding
off ignorance and bad choices or lifestyle habits). The left hand rests in your lap with the palm
facing open and up (symbolizing acceptance of life’s gentle blessings and abidance in the
beauty, pleasure and delight of the Now). Spend 3-10 minutes holding this powerful hand
gesture, with eyes closed, and steady breathing in and out through the nose. Imagine yourself
poised for Grace, balanced between extremes, making choices that honor the middle path and
support the Divine in you.
Connect
Craving some yoga practice time to share with others? This week I invite you to visit Yoga
Illumined studio on South Congress in Austin, TX. This is the location at which Courtney and I
filmed our video series! By visiting the studio, you’ll have access to a full range of props
including bolsters, blocks, massage balls, straps and blankets, as well as quality yoga
instruction from teachers who have studied the Yamas and Niyamas with Zoe! For those of you
who have never been to Yoga Illumined, a special introductory offer awaits you this week $20
for unlimited classes all week long. Visit www.yogaillumined.com to sign up for the Newbie
Special and browse class schedule.
Namaste!